Private pleasure coaching for high-achieving women
You fake it, you avoid it, and you’re not even sure you remember what wanting it feels like.
I’ve been there. Let me show you the way out.
– How we work together –
Whether you’re quietly curious or you already know you’re ready, there’s a door that fits where you are. Everything here is private, one-to-one, trauma-informed, and moves at your pace — never faster than you want to go.
Reclaim Your Pleasure Intensive
For the woman ready for complete transformation
Your 3-Day Permission Slip to Exhale
Step away from the noise, the routine, the never-ending cycle of doing. This is your private sanctuary in Mexico where ease is your only priority and your only job is to receive.
“The service was unparalleled. I felt well cared for from sessions to delicious food. Spectacular!” ~ Dorinda
Investment: $4,999 all-inclusive | Only 8 retreats hosted per year
PleasureME Retreat
For the woman ready for complete transformation
Your 3-Day Permission Slip to Exhale
Step away from the noise, the routine, the never-ending cycle of doing. This is your private sanctuary in Mexico where ease is your only priority and your only job is to receive.
“The service was unparalleled. I felt well cared for from sessions to delicious food. Spectacular!” ~ Dorinda
Investment: $4,999 all-inclusive | Only 8 retreats hosted per year
Pleasure Lab Online
You’ve been disconnected from your own body for so long that numb started to feel normal — and you’re done pushing through.
For the woman ready for deep, private, ongoing support to reconnect with her body, her pleasure, and her desire.
What it is: Three months, one-to-one with Tosh. Over six private sessions you move through regulating your nervous system, reconnecting to your body, and reclaiming pleasure — in your body, your relationships, and your life. Built on the Pleasure Triangle framework, woven with somatic work, Bodysex®-informed practices, sound healing, and nervous-system tools.
You leave: able to stop white-knuckling and actually feel again — regulated, reconnected, and prioritizing joy without dialing down your drive.
Sound Healing Massage
You’ve done the therapy, the books, the retreats — and you still can’t feel it.
For the woman who’s tried everything and still feels something essential is missing.
What it is: One full day, just you and Tosh — body-led, non-sexual touch, sacred space. Deliberately not talk-based. This is the experiential leap from understanding pleasure to living in your body. In-person or online.
You leave: with the embodied breakthrough the books and the talking never gave you.
Not ready to choose?
Let’s talk. In 30 minutes, I’ll help you understand exactly what’s blocking your pleasure and which path will bring you home to your body fastest.
Yes, investing in your pleasure feels vulnerable. That’s exactly why you should.
My Promise: Within 30 days of working together, you’ll feel more connected to your body and experience more pleasure than you have in years—or I’ll work with you one extra month.
All programs require an application. I only work with women who are truly ready to stop faking it and start feeling it.
You have permission to want more. Start here.