KEYNOTE SPEAKER · WORKSHOP FACILITATOR · RETREAT LEADER

 

Book Tosh to awaken, energize, & empower the women in your room

For ambitious women who’ve achieved everything except the feeling of being alive in their own lives.

Your audience will leave lighter, braver, and reconnected to themselves.

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Tosh helps ambitious women stop running on empty, and remember what it feels like to be fully alive in their own lives.

Tosh’s keynotes and workshops invite women to reclaim pleasure, rethink what matters, and lead from a full cup instead of an empty one. Women walk away with permission to center play, rest, and pleasure.

She’s at home in front of many kinds of audiences, and can speak to your group in the following formats:

    As a meeting planner, you’re carrying a lot. You want a speaker who makes your event unforgettable  and makes you look good for booking her. Tosh does both. Her style is warm, honest, and a little bold. She’ll move the room emotionally and still send everyone home with tools they can use Monday morning.

    Ready to talk about your event? Explore her keynotes below, download the one-sheet, and reach out. Let’s create something your audience will remember.

    Most Requested Keynotes

    WANT IT. RECEIVE IT. EXPRESS IT.

    01. The Courage to Want

     

    How ambitious women stop shrinking and start asking for what’s next.

    Have you ever wanted something like a different role, a real break, a whole new life and talked yourself out of it before you said it out loud? Do you keep choosing what’s expected over what you actually want?

    Using her own leaps (leaving corporate, moving abroad, and the smaller, scarier courage of asking for a sabbatical) Tosh helps women tell the difference between real danger and plain fear, and take the next brave step toward what they want. Your audience leaves knowing exactly what they’ve been overriding and ready to ask for it.

    Best for:  women’s leadership programs, ERGs, and conferences

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    Rick Peters On Camera

    02. The Pleasure Triangle™

    Why pleasure is a necessary and learnable skill.

    Do you treat rest and pleasure as things you’ll get to once everything else is done? Are you running on fumes and calling it discipline? What if pleasure isn’t the prize at the finish line — but the fuel that gets you there?

    Drawing on her own corporate burnout, Tosh reframes pleasure as a real source of energy, focus, and resilience — and hands your audience a simple framework for putting it back into a demanding life. They leave with a new relationship to rest and small practices that fit a packed calendar.

    Best for:  burnout-prone teams, wellness events, and women’s gatherings

    03. Turn On

     

    Reclaiming the sensual energy that fuels bold leadership.

    When did “professional” start to mean “switched off”? How much of your aliveness do you leave at the door before a big meeting? What would change if you brought your full, magnetic self into the room?

    In this bold, energizing talk, Tosh makes the case that sensual energy isn’t the opposite of executive presence — it’s the fuel underneath it. Your audience leaves with permission to bring their whole, alive selves to work, and a reframe of sensuality as power, not risk.

    Best for:  audiences ready for an edgier talk, leadership events, and retreats

    PAST SPEAKING CLIENT LIST

     

    Wellness, Retreats & Growth

    Retreats, wellness events, women’s circles
    • Reclaim the Flame: A Perimenopause & Menopause Retreat
    • Permission to Heal Retreat
    • GROUNDED for Women in Education
    • Pleasure & Paychecks: Overcome Sexual Shame to Elevate Your Business
    • Black Goddess Collective Self-Care Retreat
    • Capstone Management Corporate Wellness Retreat
    • The Healthy Vagina Monologues: What Mama Didn’t Tell You

    Panels, Summits & Podcasts

    Keynotes, fireside chats, featured panels
    • National Black Nurses Association, Skylark: Who Cares for Those Who Care
    • Win With Black Women Georgia, Pleasure Centered Healing
    • Black Women Leave America Podcast
    • Finding Your Voice After 40 Podcast
    • Decluttering and Minimalism for Black Women Ready to Move Abroad with Stephanie Perry
    • Black Women in Therapy with Roshida Dowe
    • Women Through The Door Conference at Brivo

    Media Features

    TV, Written Expertise 
    • OprahMag.com Mental Health Series
    • The Dr. Oz Show Wellness Segment
    • Baltimore 25 TV Wellness Segment
    • Women’s Elevation Magazine

     

    Rick Peters On Camera

    Tosh Patterson is a Coach | Author | Keynote speaker on courage, pleasure, burnout, and women’s leadership — helping ambitious women reclaim pleasure, rethink what matters, and lead from a full cup, not an empty one.